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I'm a year-old married mother to twin teenage daughters. I am blessed to have many girlfriends -- mostly married, several single -- and feel like I've been a good friend to them, regardless of their marital status.

Kind of like Stephen Colbert's "I don't see color. After my article on women without children in midlife went viral and I got several requests to write about single women in midlife, I wondered Am I as inclusive as I think toward my single female friends?

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Just because I'm single and 50 doesn't mean I'm desperate and will date anyone Many, but not all, women who are single in midlife would like to be in a relationship and do enjoy dating. Sue describes "that wonderful feeling of first dates, that thrill of starting over. Bonnie feels it's particularly discouraging that "men my age want to date someone 10 to 20 years younger than them.

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