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I don't know how to respond to this sort of stuff, and whether I should try to persist with fitting in with people like that? I get the feeling though that I may be the exception for someone my age in terms of not seeing any humour in immature jokes about sex and that I shouldn't expect to find new friends that have much the same personality type as me.

Hugh, well done on going to ot group and great to see that you felt a boost in confidence. The trick is now to continue to do that but not so much that you tire yourself out so much fighting the anxiety.

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Having to explain to someone who asks 'what do you do with yourself? I still have lots of issues though related to the topics that I started this thread with. Tonight I overhead a conversation between a couple of girls who were openly talking about the guys they'd slept with in the last couple of weeks. Just casually asking each other 'so how was the sex? Obviously the reasons for this frustrstion are complex, partly because as we've already said, I think that I'd prefer more meaningful intimacy than the type of quick sexual interactions that I hear about.

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